* start replacing client + federator + media workers with new worker + queue types
* refactor federatingDB.Delete(), drop queued messages when deleting account / status
* move all queue purging to the processor workers
* undo toolchain updates
* code comments, ensure dereferencer worker pool gets started
* update gruf libraries in readme
* start the job scheduler separately to the worker pools
* reshuffle ordering or server.go + remove duplicate worker start / stop
* update go-list version
* fix vendoring
* move queue invalidation to before wipeing / deletion, to ensure queued work not dropped
* add logging to worker processing functions in testrig, don't start workers in unexpected places
* update go-structr to add (+then rely on) QueueCtx{} type
* ensure more worker pools get started properly in tests
* fix remaining broken tests relying on worker queue logic
* fix account test suite queue popping logic, ensure noop workers do not pull from queue
* move back accidentally shuffled account deletion order
* ensure error (non nil!!) gets passed in refactored federatingDB{}.Delete()
* silently drop deletes from accounts not permitted to
* don't warn log on forwarded deletes
* make if else clauses easier to parse
* use getFederatorMsg()
* improved code comment
* improved code comment re: requesting account delete checks
* remove boolean result from worker start / stop since false = already running or already stopped
* remove optional passed-in http.client
* remove worker starting from the admin CLI commands (we don't need to handle side-effects)
* update prune cli to start scheduler but not all of the workers
* fix rebase issues
* remove redundant return statements
* i'm sorry sir linter
* [feature/performance] Store account stats in separate table, get stats from remote
* test account stats
* add some missing increment / decrement calls
* change stats function signatures
* rejig logging a bit
* use lock when updating stats
* update settings panels, add pending overview + approve/deny functions
* add admin accounts get, approve, reject
* send approved/rejected emails
* use signup URL
* docs!
* email
* swagger
* web linting
* fix email tests
* wee lil fixerinos
* use new paging logic for GetAccounts() series of admin endpoints, small changes to query building
* shuffle useAccountIDIn check *before* adding to query
* fix parse from toot react error
* use `netip.Addr`
* put valid slices in globals
* optimistic updates for account state
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Co-authored-by: kim <grufwub@gmail.com>